Telling is not teaching. 

Seeking your opinion from others is not existing 

Those who know you will just repeat their opinions and let you

Do not love you

They are content with controlling you 

Those who expect you to accept their opinions

Do not want to love you 

They want to control you

And you who simply repeat their opinions as if you came to the conclusion yourself 

You do not love them 

You let them control you because you are using them 

Love is never subservience to another person 

It is a shared experience between two individuals 

Love is not imposing your will

That is ownership

Love is not giving up your mind 

That is slavery, chosen or not 

If you do either you are not a real person 

And if you do the latter you are worthless 

Love exists in desire even in disagreement 

If they allow you to parrot

You are nothing to real them